Question: Husband doesn't want to sleep with me?

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Answer #1:

When it comes to sex, Husbands Rule the Roost. Let him come to you for sex and you'll both be happy!

Answer #2:

Is this an isolated incident? Or, is it happening all the time? He could be tired, he could be stressed, he could be moody, there's all kinds of reasons. Look more to frequency in solving your question. If it is happening all the time, then you two probably need counseling. I think it is a fallacy that men want to do it all the time at the drop of a hat. They are, after all, human beings too, and faced with all kinds of pressures. Maybe he's been driving for 7 hours to get to the vacation spot and just wants to sleep. Or maybe he's been waiting for this vacation as a way to "reboot" his computer psychologically. He might not want to put effort into ANYTHING at the moment.

If the whole vacation goes by and you don't have sex, you might want to sit down with him when you get back (or the drive home) and ask him if anything's the matter. Sometimes a mate just wants to be held. Give him some time, but DO ask him if anything is wrong at some point. Best wishes.

Answer #3:

If his lack of interest has been ongonig, then nope it's not normal. Nothing is wrong with you, the problem lies with him. I would have a talk to him and find out exactly what's going on.

Answer #4:

IS he under stress? Is he older? Is this the first time this has happened? is he pleasuring himself or something else going on?

If its age send him to the doctor. If it stress bare with him and be understanding and wait for a better time. make sure he is not dong something else!!! like porn or cheating ect (which i doubt)

and just talk to him, if you feel that you can bring it up... Do not push him, arouse him and play hard to get! maybe he likes to be incharge and try 3 times in one day is alot. just get out a nightgown and give him some alcohol =)
oh-and nothing is wrong w/you
and yeah its normal sometimes

Answer #5:

He is having problems with his tool, likely?
He wants you to chill out and let him pursue you?

He just wants to relax and enjoy the scenery?


Watch and Pray!

Answer #6:

It depends on what your sex life was prior to you both getting married and how it was prior to your vacation. If it has changed drastically since then I'd say there's a problem with your husband. Has he been sick? Stressed from work or dealing with financial pressures that you may not know about?

You may want to lay off the pressure for sex right now and help him relax enough where you can bring up a conversation about what may be bothering him. Hopefully he'll open to you and you'll both be able to solve whatever is distracting him. Good luck to you.

Answer #7:

There may vary well be something seriously bothering your husband. Men aren't quick to discuss any sexual problems they might have. As well men aren't always able to express emotions like most women can. So my question to you would have to be what's the big rush to jump into bed or have sex? I mean your married and you'd want him to be understanding and patient if you weren't in the mood for sex right? so you should be just as patient and understanding with him. Pulse all men are horney bed jumping toads........ Back off and let him breath.....





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